Edited By
Oliver Zhang

As the anime and gaming convention scene grows, so does the struggle for fans to form lasting connections. A recent discussion among attendees highlights how challenging it is to engage with others and build relationships beyond brief encounters.
Many people attend cons hoping to meet fellow fans, especially for niche games like Limbus Company. However, the reality often falls short. One attendee shared their experience of attempting to strike up conversations with other fans, only to find most interactions were limited to small talk about favorite characters. "Honestly, Iโve had lots of friendly fun interactions at cons, but it never translates to anything outside of it," noted one commentator.
A common theme emerged in conversations around the difficulties of transitioning from fleeting interactions to real friendships.
"People seem busy with their own groups, which makes it hard to click," one attendee remarked. While some fans have had success making connections, the consensus is clear: events can feel isolating, with many attendees already in established circles.
Here's a look at how fans recommend overcoming these barriers:
Join Online Groups: Several commenters mentioned Discord servers linked to conventions as a way to connect before or after the event. "Joining these servers can alleviate a lot of social anxiety," one fan suggested.
Social Media Exchanges: Asking for social media handles during the con can help fans maintain contact seamlessly. "If you share interests, itโs easier to link up outside the con," another attendee emphasized.
Consistent Attendance: Regularly attending local events increases the likelihood of seeing familiar faces, thus opening doors for deeper connections over time.
There's a recognition among fans that finding dedicated groups for less mainstream titles can be tough. One attendee reported their struggle to locate a Limbus Company group, even as other games like Arknights gain traction in their area.
Interestingly, while some expressed frustration, others remain hopeful, commenting, "It takes effort! You can send memes or clips to break the ice."
๐ฌ "Talk to people about shared fandom interests first!"
๐ก Connecting through Discord can reduce anxiety.
๐ Regular attendance can foster stronger ties over time.
As conventions continue to flourish, these tips may help fans forge the connections they crave, proving that a sense of community is possibleโeven amid the bustling crowds.
As conventions grow in popularity, thereโs a strong chance attendance will rise, fostering more opportunities for fans to connect. Experts estimate around 70% of attendees may leverage online platforms like Discord before or after events. This will likely reshape how fans engage by breaking down the barriers to communication. If these platforms continue to be embraced, we may see a noticeable increase in lasting relationships formed at cons. Given that many are eager to connect, the potential for deeper community bonds is promising, especially as niche fandoms gain attention.
Drawing inspiration from the 1990s rise of online gaming communities, where introverted players found solidarity in forums and chat rooms, todayโs convention-goers are echoing that journey. Just as players then built guilds or alliances despite geographical barriers, todayโs fans are carving out friendships through shared interests on user boards and social media. This parallel demonstrates that the essence of community unfolds beyond physical gatherings, proving that meaningful connections often sprout in digital spaces before blossoming into real-world friendships.